Have you been trying to get him to fall in love with you? Has he shown a certain degree of interest in you, but he’s not all the way there yet? Do you sometimes get the feeling he’s trying to back out and you don’t know why? Guys can have huge fluctuations with the emotions they feel. They’re attracted to a woman, start to feel a degree of emotion, fear that emotion, fear losing her, fear losing themselves.
To calm his fears you have to avoid any and all pressure. He needs to know that being with you isn’t going to become a chore. If you begin to put pressure on him now, he can only imagine what you’ll be like later.
Keep your focus on having fun with him and showing him that he’s better off with you than without. However you have to be wary of going too far and appearing desperate. Ideally you want to be yourself and just take it easy. Having fun with him shouldn’t be work and you shouldn’t have to be forcing it or faking to have a good time with him.
When you guys feel a natural sense of comfort just being together, even if you’re not doing anything in particular, the sense of well being that will envelope him will bring him to consider committing to you.
Also hang onto your life and don’t be too eager to give up your activities in order to be with him more. Being at his side all the time can become tiresome for him, but you’re also not ever giving him a chance to miss you.
Leave him to himself for few nights and let him have a breather while you reconnect with the friends or re-enroll in the class you’d cancelled. If he knows that you won’t be always latched to his side, he’ll feel better about the thought of falling in love with you.