Monthly Archives: March 2021

There is so much junk floating around the web and being passed off as “seduction techniques.” You can’t even ask a close friend for dating advice because nine times out of ten he has no clue of how to attract women. Ever since man has had the capacity to ask questions: there has been one that has perplexed us all.

What do women want?

There is no simple answer to this question but there are some universals that hold true in almost every situation. When you get more advanced and become what I like to call the natural ladies man you will be able to adapt to each woman.

Before we move on, I want to make something clear. Never believe anyone that tells you that you can have any woman you want. That is delusional and an outright lie!

The average man can’t even seduce the majority of women that he desires. It is possible but it would take years to reach this level, warning; be prepared to devote much of your time and energy applying your seduction techniques on highly resistant targets.

Well, back on course, what do women want?

They want someone who listens. I know. I know. You hear this all the time. This is the number one thing that can change everything for the better. Having someone that genuinely listens and is interested in what we have to say is a rare quality in our fast paced world of today. Trust me on this one.

Women want a man that is confident. Confidence can’t be learned or taught. The true way to confidence is by reclaiming your true identity. You do this by embracing your unique personality and be yourself instead of what society says you should be.

When you do this you become as a unique work of art among a pile of mass printed black and write newspapers.

Your goal is to become naturally confident instead of faking and forcing it. When you force confidence you become rigid and people can sense the subtle vibes of anxiety no matter how hard you try to hide them.

Seduction techniques are more numerous than even an advanced practitioner can master but when you once you embody the core essence of attracting women you won’t need a bag of tricks and will be light years ahead of these “pick-up artists.”

Remember, it only takes one woman to keep a man satisfied for life.

We have all taken vacations and stayed at marvelous independently owned boutique resorts and bed and breakfasts. We marvel at their attention to detail, their value, their friendliness, and the hard work and long hours the owners put in to make us happy. Many of us have probably said because of a good experience, “I would love to open a bed and breakfast or small resort someday.”

This year more than ever, small independent resorts and B & B’s need your vacation dollars. Not only have they always had to compete against the large impersonal chain hotels and motels while having a fraction of their advertising and marketing budgets, but they have always had much higher operating expenses because of the great amenities they have for their guests compared to chains.

This is not the year to decide to cut back on vacationing at your favorite boutique resort or B & B as they may not be around next year.

We have all called to make reservations at a favorite place, only to sadly find out it went out of business and thought, “that was such a nice little resort, we have such wonderful memories there, I wonder why it went out of business.” They went out of business because people stayed at chain hotels on their vacations.

Many people don’t appreciate small businesses in America. It is like what happened with the “Wal-Marting” of America. Wal-Mart moved into small towns, people start shopping at them. All of a sudden their neighbors who owned small businesses went out of business. Downtowns declined, property values went down, Wal-Mart got rich and people said, “what happened to our town?” Every time they shopped at Wal-Mart, they were responsible for the decline in their own towns.

The same is true with small resorts. Everyone loves staying at them. But, this year, the year of the staycation may drive your favorite small resort out of business and you will have no one to blame but yourself. Small resorts need your help more than ever. They need for you to get relaxed and pampered at them. They need for you to forgo vacations overseas. Stay in the US and support fellow Americans with your vacation dollars.

And don’t just go on weekends. Everyone wants to go to a boutique resort on a weekend. For instance nice small resorts turn away hundreds of guests wanting to stay with them on Valentine’s Day because they are full. Go before Valentine’s Day. Go midweek. Go off season on vacation. That is how you will help small resorts and B & B’s.

This is the year to vacation at your favorite independent hotel. Vacation in the good old USA!